Travel from Paris to reality

I haven't flown on a plane in almost a year. My husband and I traveled to Paris during the National Day last year. Little did I know during the trip that my life would change dramatically after this trip. After returning from Paris, I found out that I was 2 months pregnant. In other words, my son followed me to Paris while he was still in my belly. The long waiting period of ten months into the pregnancy began, and I went through a difficult pregnancy with the baby in my belly. Now he is 3 months old. I just discovered that it is already difficult for me to go back to my old life. It seems difficult to go on a casual trip like before. It is also difficult for new mothers to return to the workplace. From the day I found out I was having a baby, life started to get difficult.

But I don’t want to complain at all about the changes that my son’s arrival has brought to my life, because he made me understand the meaning of life. Before I had children, I felt that I could still maintain a girlish heart despite my age. But overnight after giving birth to him, I began to slowly change. Someone on Weibo told me that after giving birth to a child, I will become afraid of many things, and it is indeed what he said. The physical difficulties of raising children can be shared with a nanny, but the psychological difficulties are different in their own way. These are some experiences that people must go through, :) Come on.

Paris last year